Happy October 1st! With only three months left until the end of the year,
I’m sending you this note with all that is happening here at BCI. I hope
you’ll be able to join me for at least one of these events, several of which
are completely fr.e.e.!

You’re cordially invited to join me for the following:

*** Tonight – Thursday, October 1 – F.R-E-E Webinar ****

https://www2.gotomeeting.com/register/843402019

If you’re a mom and want to know more about my Mom’s Conference coming
up in a few weeks, I hope you’ll join me for this webinar. Don’t let the
word “webinar” stop you. It is VERY easy and a great way for me to be able
to interact with you. This webinar is to give you a better
understanding of what to expect at the Mom’s Conference along
with ways to actually get away from your family for several days
(it is possible!).

I’ll also have other moms who have been to this event in the past be on the
line to give their stories and I’m certain they will take any questions you
have as well.

Connect with me tonight. Here is the time zone breakout:
9:30 pm Eastern
8:30 pm Central
7:30 pm Mountain
6:30 pm Pacific

Even if you can’t make these times, please sign up and you’ll receive the
link to the recording.

BONUS! During this webinar, we will be awarding one family
complimentary attendance for the entire 10-week Beyond Consequences
Online parenting course (a $197 value). You need to be present to win!
Space is limited, please register now.

https://www2.gotomeeting.com/register/843402019

*** Intensive Two-Day Training – October 16-17, 2009 – Orlando, FL ****

www.intensivetwodaytraining.com

This is the last two-day intensive training until June 2010. The Training in
Virginia Beach last month was amazing and life transforming (not my words…
this is what many participants told me).

The training is designed to give you a deeper understanding of the Beyond
deeper understanding of the Beyond Consequences Model. Learn more of
what to do “in the moment” and how to respond with love instead
of react from old patterns of fear and frustration. By attending
this training, you can also purchase my 10-session BCI training manual this
is complete with a DVD set in order to teach parenting classes in your
community or agency.

This training is being held right on Disney Property! It is a wonderful
place to stay and you won’t even have to rent a car. If you stay at a Disney
Resort, they pick you up at the airport. We’re even arranging for you to
have food provided during the day of the training. Just come and enjoy the
two days and leave feeling equipped and empowered to return home to bring
you and your family to the next level of love and relationship.

I’ve cut the cost because I know this recession is hitting families hard!
For just $297, you can come either by yourself or with your spouse
or partner. Seriously, no extra charge for the two of you together! For more
information, log into: www.intensivetwodaytraining.com

*** Beyond Consequences Classroom ****

With my colleague, Eric Guy, LSW, BCI is moving into the classroom!
We have several trainings coming up this fall that might be in your local area.

Check out our new website for more information at:
www.allchildrenwanttolearn.com

Here are two upcoming events:

Monday, October 5, 2009
8am-4pm MDT
Snow College
Richfield, Utah 84701
***Registration fee: $10 – includes lunch***
contact: Teresa Robinson – (435)896-8415

Saturday, November 7, 2009
9 am – 4 pm
Central Christian School
Dalton, OH
FR.E.E! Sign up at: www.allchildrenwanttolearn.com

*** October 7, 2009 – Online Parenting Classes Begin Next Week ****

My online 10-week parent training is going incredibly well! These classes are a way
to get the support you need without the expense or stress of traveling and leaving
home. These trainings are live with me. With the use of technology, they are very
interactive, informative, and fun classes!

These are great classes for dads, moms, grandparents, case workers, therapists, and
anyone else involved in the life of children with difficult behaviors.

Check the following website for all the information:
www.beyondconsequencesonline.com

Also, if you want to join us at no charge for our first class, we invite you to come
and check it out. This first class is a “How To & FAQ class” and you can see what this
whole ‘webinar’ thing is all about!
Sign up at: https://www2.gotomeeting.com/register/701657858

*** Beyond Consequences LIVE! ****

I have two more Beyond Consequences LIVE! trainings remaining this year. These are
my one-day parent training events and the only fee involved is simply a copy of any
one of my parenting books.

Atlanta, GA – October 29, 2009 (CEU’s are available)

San Francisco, November 14, 2009

Sign up at: www.BeyondConsequencesLive.com

We’re also planning out all the details for these events in 2010. We’ll be in
Dallas, TX; Los Angeles, CA; Denver, CO; St. Louis, MO; Salt Lake City, UT;
and Indianapolis, IN. I’ll send details and dates soon!

*** October 23-24, 2009 – Every Day is Mother’s Day Conference ****

Are you in need of deep healing and a weekend of rejuvenation? Are you at the point
of not wanting to be a mom? Do you just need a lift to get back your energy and
passion for being a parent? This conference is designed just for you.

Take advantage of the discounted rate before the registration rate goes back up.
All the information is available at: www.EveryDayIsMothersDay.com

*** Ask the Experts – Free Audio ****

As part of my commitment to keep pulling in the latest research for you, log into
a great interview I had with Dr. Kevin McCauley. You’ll gain a broader understanding
of the brain system and why we act the way we do when we are in survival.
You can get immediate access to this audio at:

www.beyondconsequences.com/asktheexpert/kevinmccauley/

Press on!

I’m celebrating this weekend because I finished the last chapter of my new book on Thursday, put some final touches on it on Friday, and sent it off to my editor! What a major undertaking—I feel like I’m floating on air right now. This book will be a follow-up to the first volume of Beyond Consequences, Logic, and Control. It is written in the same format where the first part of the book outlines the research, sets the foundation for this parenting paradigm, and covers the basic premises of love-based parenting. The second part details seven more behaviors. They include: demanding behaviors, homework struggles, self-injury, no conscience, social struggles, chores, and defensive attitudes. The third part is the best—it gives amazing success stories that parents submitted to me. You’ll be amazed at how love can turn a family who was in complete chaos into a family of peace and fun. The stories are truly inspiring!

This book definitely goes beyond the first book. It is so much more in-depth and gives better parenting examples. Since writing the first book, I have grown tremendously both personally and professionally. I am the happiest I have ever been in my life and this made a difference in my writing. The information flowed much easier and the application of how to put love into action as a parent is much more profound.

The hardest part of the book was when I went to write only one single sentence—the dedication. I am dedicating this book to my mom who passed away this past April. Still as I write this blog, my eyes well up and the pain begins to surface. My mother was an advocate for children and spent about 30 years in public service standing up for what children needed in the public school system. She was a school board member who was not afraid to have a one to four vote (she being the one) and would stand her ground and held strong through the politics and budget restraints in order to do what was right. She modeled to me the true essence of perseverance, tenacity, and dedication. Dedicating this book to her gives it a whole new level of meaning for me.

Look for the release of Volume 2 at the end of October. We are planning a big book release party at BCI, so be sure you are signed up on my network (http://www.beyondconsequences.com/) so you’ll get an invitation!